Relationship CoachinG

***Alchemize the past. Embody the love you long for***.

SOULFUL INTIMACY + REVOLUTIONARY RELATING

love letter to Singles:

You can feel it in your bones.

A certain kind of deep, rich intimacy.

The kind that makes your soul sing.

You know there is something beyond the tired stories of relating that:

Ask you to sever or silence parts of yourself to fit into the tight, tiny box of a relationship.
Dim your light.
Fail to hold space for the wildly beautiful whole being you are.
Leave you feeling tired, tender, and traumatized.
Feel more like transactional power plays than deeply nourishing + safe relationships.
Compel you to shut down your heart and give up the longing of your soul.

I know what you long for.

The kind of intimacy and relating that:

Provides spaciousness for you to be your fullest + most expansive self.
Amplifies your light AND honors the depths of your being with kindness, compassion, and curiosity.
Reveals and supports your unique soul journey.
Feels nourishing and safe but not stagnant
Prioritizes integrity, personal inquiry, growth, attunement, presence and mutual care
Inspires feelings of enlivenment, playfulness, and joy.
Compels you to courageously open your heart to an embodied expression of Love.

Oh, and the sex? Mind-blowing, heart-expanding ecstasy.

It’s not common, but it is possible. I’m here to show you how.

I’m Interested

Love letter to couples + partnered ones:

Maybe you’ve hit some rough waters.

You yearn to feel the way you did when this love adventure began, to find your way back to that spark, that passion, that aliveness, that curiosity and wonder about each other.

You love each other but there is a history of undigested hurts that seem to have forged dynamics that, on some days, feel impossible to shift.

Maybe you’ve had kids and gotten bogged in daily life, drifting from the days where you could revel in your relationship. Love has gotten too domesticated and you need help re-wilding it in a way that works within parenting.

Maybe its hard to admit but you feel smaller, less alive, less you in this relationship. Like you’ve dimmed, compromised, or silenced parts of yourself to continue this connection.

Maybe you find yourself in the same arguments about the same things again and again, and feel hopelessly stuck.

Maybe sexual intimacy feels rote or imbalanced. The dynamic isn’t feeling good for either of you and you’re wondering how to change that.

Maybe you don’t feel safe in your relationship to be vulnerable, or to show all of what is really alive inside of you.

Maybe communication feels like a frequent misfire, things don’t go the way you hope, you get stuck, someone gets mad, someone avoids, someone blames, someone takes the burden. Feelings get hurt, even when you try your best.

Maybe you’ve tried things that don’t work and are yearning for something that actually strengthens your bond, helps you each see each other anew, and breathes fresh life into the creature that is your relationship.

Maybe you feel hopeful. Discouraged. Both at the same time.

Any and all of that makes so much sense.

You’re not alone.

Change is possible.

Yes, I'm ready for support

“Jaime is a profoundly wise being and guide. She understands the terrain of intimate relationships with masterful knowing and is ever insightful on the means to sustain and restore harmony in partnership.”

— Darren H, sound healer, men's group leader, spiritual teacher

**I walk with men + women, individuals + couples,**
who want to understand + **mend their** **past** and
learn **present moment practices** of relating in a deep, holistic, authentic + soulful way

I OFFER SUPPORT FOR YOU TO CULTIVATE:

Emotional intelligence + agility
Healthy, generative communication
Embodied/Somatic relational safety
Soulful relationships
Sacred sexuality
A bridge between your personal growth/spiritual journey + relational lives
THIS WORK IS FOR YOU IF:
You’re currently single and want support processing your relational past, building supportive skills + gaining resources, and stepping toward the kinds of relational experiences you desire.
You’d like support taking a period of conscious celibacy.
You’re currently dating, and want someone to walk with you as you navigate this territory.
You’re currently in partnership and you are wanting individual support in your personal growth journey as a way to show up more fully + intentionally inside your partnership
You’re currently in partnership and both you and your partner are wanting support as a couple.
You are the active agent of your own personal growth and seek support to amplify, clarify and support your relational experiences.

I'm feeling it, let's talk

“Working with Jaime has been a very powerful experience for me.

I felt deeply seen, supported, and cared for in her loving presence.

Jaime has tremendous insight into the human experience, understanding what motivates people, and how to navigate the delicate nature of repairing and healing deep emotional and psychological wounding.”

— Mica A, Spiritual/holistic Counselor, author, artist

WHAT MAKES THIS WORK UNIQUE

Embodied + Somatic.

Our work is nervous system contextualized + in-the-body work. Relational wounds and traumas happen, get stuck, and heal in and through the body. Jaime is trained in polyvagal theory, somatic healing + embodied movement therapy.

Root Cause Oriented.

Getting to root cause beyond conscious rationale. In addition to our current, known storylines, we go to past lives, lineage, perinatal period, dreams, wherever deep psyche directs us to find root cause. Our work is multi-dimensional.

Experiential.

It’s not enough to simply talk about things. We need direct experience to transform + grow. I offer practices, movement rituals, meditations, journeys, journal explorations, ceremonies, and more.

Deep Psyche + Archetypal.

I see the psyche as a collective of parts and aspects, archetypes and forces that we can explore toward the end of greater self understanding. I draw on models of psyche wholeness, Shamanic Astrology, and mythos.

“Jaime truly has a gift to hold a strong sacred container for the healing process.

Her ability to be sensitive to the deeper undercurrent of energies, her powerful intuition, and her masterful communication skills all contributed to making me feel deeply safe and held in our work together.

Thank you Jaime!”

— M.A.

I’m Jaime

I’m passionate about **deep**, **authentic**, **sacred** and **revolutionary** **relationships**.
Those that ditch tired, worn out relational scripts … and cultivate **rooted, real + rapturous** containers of connection.
I believe in the power of relationship as a **sacred practice of wholeness + communion** with the Divine.
I believe healing + revolutionizing our relational experiences is essential to the **transformation of consciousness** happening on Earth today.

WHAT I OFFER TO YOU

I am committed to helping people honor themselves and others as they navigate the wild territory of love, intimacy, and relationship, whatever that looks like.

I don’t practice relationship-ism: the belief that you never “fully arrive” until you are in a committed partnership with someone who “chooses you.”

I mean, cool, but not the only or best path for everyone or at every stage of our soul’s earthly adventures. There is much growth to be had on our relational journeys no matter our dating status.

I deeply honor partnership as one of the bravest and most important things we’ll ever do in this lifetime. I believe couples need all the support they can get navigating the terrain of intimate relating, for which most of us have been given few good maps or adequate gear, tools, and resources.

I am a deep + epic listener, intuitive, super Libra, and an HSP (highly sensitive person). I’ll catch subtle nuances and pick up on patterns and perspectives you’ve never considered.

I am soulful and work multi-dimensionally to help you get to the heart of what you care about most.

People feel safe + deeply seen, heard and understood in my presence. I will offer that to you AND teach you how to do it in your relationships.

I deeply love, trust and respect men.

Men tend to transform + expand in epic, heart-opening ways when I am blessed to companion them for some part of their journeys.

Emasculation cuts men deeply. Porn + patriarchal paradigms fuck up men’s relational + sexual selves. I’m committed to honoring men’s intimate lives + understanding their whole embodied humanness. I keep a close reverent ear to the important work of my male colleagues.

I also deeply love, trust and respect women.

I’ve walked many of the most challenging relational + sexual experiences women go through. I know the dance of healing from sexual trauma, toxic relationships, shame, and self-abandonment. I have incredible tools to support those on a path of re-embodiment and healing.

Relationships are humbling. NO one has it all figured out. I see people I’m blessed to walk with as whole, empowered, and capable. I will walk with you in a supportive way as you remember who you are and how to cultivate the relationship and sex life of your dreams.

I have some really yummy practices, skills + tools to share with you too. They will change your love life.

Some of the incredible teachers I’ve studied with:

Esther Perel: rekindling desire in long-term relationships
Sarah Baldwin, Kimberly Ann Johnson, Luis Mojica, Staci Haines, Peter Levine: Polyvagal theory, somatic healing, nervous system regulation, attachment theory
Kristin Sweeting Morelli: radiant womanhood and empowered relating with men
Jaiya: Erotic Blueprints
Yvette Erasmus: Non-violent communication
Rochelle Schieck/Qoya: embodied movement
Alison Armstrong: generative relating between men + women
Luna Dietrich: pleasure + sexuality
Kendra Cunov: conscious celibacy; boundaries, + empowered womanhood
Sara Avant Stover: feminine wisdom and embodiment
Animas Valley Institute: mirroring and council work
Lukaijah + Saskia: Divine Union alchemy
Caroline Padgett: Energy medicine
Sao Long, Tami Brunk + SAMS: Shamanic Astrology

MY VALUES

Safe attuned presence: listening and offering safe space for you to be heard and understood is more important to me than offering you some quick clever solutions.
Power-with, collaborative model. We curiously and openly explore together.
Animistic: all of creation is an intricate play of interbeingness and relationship. We are in relationship with everything in our lives. Quality, conscious, authentic relating is key. It matters how we gesture in all of our relationships.
Whole-istic: I value the wisdom not simply of the mind, but of the body, the deep psyche + its imaginal capacities, the emotional intelligence, and your higher, multi-dimensional self.